The Secret That Will Change Your Household Completely! by Rabbi Benayahu Shmueli
When a person has faith in Hashem, he is happy. Why, afterward he says 'I don't have this, I don't have that,' crying all the time. Sir, don't cry! Hashem only gives good. It is known, if the father is happy at home and makes Shabbat with joy and the home is happy, then the home is good. But if not, then it doesn't go well.
The Secret That Will Change Your Household Completely!

"The moment a person is happy and serves Hashem with joy, there is nothing like it. Why? Because if he is sad, then he shows that he is not happy with what Hashem is doing. But when he serves the Holy One, blessed be He, with joy, it is like a servant who needs to bring his master such-and-such—if he brings it with force, with laziness, he'll throw it back in his face.
With joy! It's a privilege, yes! A privilege to serve Hashem, blessed be He, where is there such a thing? When a person has faith in Hashem, he is happy. Why, afterward he says 'I don't have this, I don't have that,' crying all the time. Sir, don't cry! Hashem only gives good. It is known, if the father is happy at home and makes Shabbat with joy and the home is happy, then the home is good. But if not, then it doesn't go well. That's how it needs to be, there needs to be joy."